Guilty Pleasure - Eurovision Special: The Final Instalment

Here it is folks, my final tribute to all things Eurovision and what better way to end this spectacular special than with my favourite two acts to come out of the competition.

Consisting of Cheryl Baker, Jay Aston, Mike Nolan and Bobby G, Bucks Fizz represented the UK in the 1981 contest with Making Your Mind Up and won.

How Bucks Fizz managed to win the competition is beyond me. The singing was off key, the dancing amateurish and let's not even go there on the costumes. Despite this blot in Eurovision history, I am awfully glad they did win. If not for the competition, they would not have gone on to have a very successful career.

I turned 14 in 1981 and Bucks Fizz were without a doubt my favourite band and remained so for many years.

They released many singles, with three of them reaching number one in the UK. They were also very successful throughout Europe and even as far afield as Australia.

Of all the albums Bucks Fizz released, my favourite is Hand Cut which was released in 1983.

The artwork alone was worth the price I paid. Of all their album sleeves, this to me is the one that is the most visually stunning.

The reason I love this one the most is down to one track alone. That track is "I'd Like to Say I Love You".
It is such a beautiful song and I cannot believe the record company did not feel it worthy of a single release.
I am sure it would have proved to be a massive hit for them if they had.

Bucks Fizz are still performing, though they are now two separate groups. They have not had a hit single or album for years. Personally I think their demise from the charts was due to over exposure in the early 80's (Rihanna take heed) which resulted in the fans turning away from their music.
I was not one of those fans and continued to buy and listen to their music.

Of all the tracks Bucks Fizz recorded I have chosen my favourite three and they are:

Number 1 - I'd Like to Say I Love You
Number 2 - Tears on the Ballroom Floor
Number 3 - Golden Days

Whilst I love Bucks Fizz as a group, Cheryl Baker has always been my favourite and it was a travesty that her one attempt at a solo pop career went unnoticed. She released a fantastic version of "If Paradise is Half as Nice" and it should have been a massive hit for her.
I think I was one of the few that bought it and I still own it along with all my other Bucks Fizz albums and cd's.

I have two Bucks Fizz related dreams. One is to meet the original members of the group. The other is to write a musical based around their songs. I already have an outline for it and who knows, one day it may just happen


And so to the act who joins Bucks Fizz as my favourite to come out of Eurovision and who else could it be but the amazing Abba.
Consisting of Agnetha Faltskog, Anni-frid Lynstag, Benny Andersonn and Bjorn Ulveaus, they represented Sweden in the 1974 contest and won with Waterloo.

Abba went on to become one of the most successful acts to ever come out of Eurovision and one of the most successful bands in the world.
Selling millions of singles and albums, they were Sweden's biggest export for years.They are famous throughout the world and have influenced many of today's artists with their music.
How anyone can not like Abba is a mystery to me. Their music is ridiculously good and can be enjoyed by any age.

Of course, they have a huge gay following but I do not love Abba because I am gay. To me, ones sexual orientation does not determine who you will like music wise. That is not what music is about. Music is how it makes you feel inside. With their music, Abba have the ability to make you feel happy, sad, excited and many other feelings.

Abba split up many years ago and that alone is proof of how good they are as their music still sells by the millions.
There is always talk of a reunion and I know that if a concert were to be announced, it would sell out in an instant. One can hope that maybe one day they will make that announcement.

Choosing my favourite three Abba tracks was a difficult task. There are just so many that I love. Nevertheless I have managed it and here they are:

Number 1 - The Winner Takes it All
Number 2 - Thank You for the Music

Number 3 - Happy New Year

There is only one word to describe this song and that word is "perfection".

So there is..my favourite two acts from the many years of the contest.

I hope you have enjoyed reading my Eurovision Special. I have absolutely adored writing it and looking back at the many highlights.

If you agree or disagree with my choices, please feel free to send me a message or maybe even a comment about my blog in general. If you really like the blog then pass the link onto your friends. Whilst my specials have been for all ages, some of my earlier blogs are a little on the rude side so please be cautious if you do pass the link on.

All that is left for me to say is tune in Saturday 26th for the 2012 Eurovision Contest from Baku and wherever you are in the world, I hope you enjoy the show.

Until next time, I bid thee farewell.

Tristram - Part 1

It's that time of the week again folks and I know I said that this would be the week of the big confession but I have had second thoughts. Don't worry, it's only postponed and I do have another one to tempt you with.

I also have plans to improve my blog. The idea is to make it a blog that people will remember and want to visit again and again. If you have any thoughts on what you would like me to include, just leave me a comment.

Are you sitting comfortably.. you are? Then let us proceed:

I was on Gaydar doing the usual when I received a request for a private chat. He had a picture so I accepted. His name was Tristram and he was in his early 30's.
I checked his profile and have to admit I liked what I saw. He had decent looks and dressed well. You could tell he shopped at Next and I do love their clothes so he was off to a very good start.
He had obviously looked at my profile as he commented on how young I looked for my age. That was another point in his favour. I do get a thrill when people compliment me on my youthful looks.
Tristram lived in Heckmondwike, had his own place, car and a job. I was beginning to think I had hit the jackpot here but didn't let it go to my head.
We chatted for absolutely ages and were hitting it off rather nicely.
 One has to know when someone just wants dirty talk and when someone is genuine.
I do have one private chat buddy who likes the dirty talk. It can be such a giggle and it's also that feeling you have knowing that whatever you say is helping that person to maintain an erection and eventually climax. The way I look at it, I am helping that person with their sexual activities though sometimes the chat can become a little crude. Do I really need to know that someone likes to be urinated on? I think not!
Tristram appeared to be genuine so a little bit of tasteful flirting took place.
It was getting to the point in the conversation when the question of a date pops up but I was unsure of which direction to go. He did seem really nice but surely there had to be something. It couldn't be this perfect.
I decided to set him a little test by asking if he would be on Gaydar the following night.
Most guys are on there for one reason only and that is a shag. If Tristram was one of those guys, then I wouldn't hear from him again. If he wasn't, then he would be in the chatroom waiting for me tomorrow.
We agreed a time and said our goodnight's.

Was he there the next night or was he a no show? Tune in next week to find out.

Until then, I bid thee farewell.